Patience is probably my only virtue
I did tell the dealer "I am REALLY REALLY REALLY Pis..D Off but that I have a rule to be nice to the guy who has your RV held hostage, so I'll not take it out on you"
I also try like hell to simply ask myself "is it gonna matter in 100 years?" and if the answer is no then try not to sweat it too much."
I do have to say when he told me he had none of the parts I had steam coming out of my ears.
A quick road trip to Indiana and hopefully all goes well and I come back with an improved rig ready for Q and I'll be happy.
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone and thanks for all the support.