[alherbel]

Have discovered failure to stabilizer action.... BLOWN fuse.!!! ... had brother-in-law look at our problem area, the relays clicking, etc... Then It dawned me, there were fuse lines near, and we started popping the covers to peek at them... ONE fuse was blown, replaced with new, presto-change-o, stabilizer works with remote again!... GOING to place silicone over line where it enters the stabilizer motor, a known problem as stated by DQDick earlier!
. . . THANK you everyone!... It has been a really great day!